Structured Settlements 4Real®Blog 2026

Structured settlements expert John Darer reviews the latest structured settlements and settlement planning information and news, and provides expert opinion and highly regarded commentary. that is spicy, Informative, irreverent and effective for over 20 years.

by John Darer® CLU ChFC MSSC RSP CLTC

Some settlement professionals show an amazing lack of protocol during a mediation.

The placement of a structured settlement today commonly involves structured settlement brokers, settlement planners or Mediation etiquette consultants from one or more interested parties who split the fees much in the same way as brokers to a real estate sale. For the most part it works well, is fair for all parties and is disclosed. Yet for some,  "side lipped" horse trading lives on.

Here are some thoughts inspired by a few recent personal experiences:

  • When you're a settlement professional invited to a mediation, you are a participant in an adversarial process. You are also representing our industry. It is absolutely not appropriate to approach your adversary who is sitting next to his client, turn your back (and your "fresh" from a "red-eye" posterior) in his client's face and then, with a poorly disguised nod and a wink, suggest that the two of you "go out into the hallway" when the intent is simply to discuss how commissions are to be whacked up. If you don't think there is any perception problem there then perhaps you need to get new bifocals!
  • You should not be discussing aspects of the case with your counterpart at the mediation, or providing any signals like "thumbs up" unless authorized by your client.
  • You should come prepared for the mediation and be knowledgeable of the laws of the jurisdiction.
  • Do not prepare a structured settlement quote from a company that is not licensed in the state of jurisdiction if you expect to be credible.
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